Today, we received probably the most useful gift of all. Every guest was asked to write some parenting advice for Nick and me. Here are some of the words of wisdom:
- Remember each child is unique; what works for one may not work for another
- Rotate toys in and out of storage; kids will think they are new
- Sleep when the baby is sleeping
- Read her the Bible and Bible stories
- Realize each moment - whether stressful or joyous - will only happen once, so relish it
- Pick your battles wisely and learn to let things go
- Enjoy getting to know the characteristics and traits that make each child unique
- Take lots of pictures and videos
- Remember there are no perfect parents
- Church is non-negotiable but a clean room is leverage to do fun things later :)
- Have a bedtime routine and stick to it
- Take time to keep the marriage strong
- Don't be afraid to ask for help
- Offer lots of hugs, kisses and 'I love you's'
- Don't buy expensive toys because their favorite thing will be the box!
- Keep going on dates with one another
- Live, laugh and learn together
- Remember each child is a gift from God
- Keep the marriage top priority
- Don't use baby talk; kids pick up language skills very well
Finally, this advice came from my friend Angela's 6 year old daughter - "Don't yell; if you yell, it will make the kid yell, too." Smart girl!
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Even when your daughter has been naughty, look into her eyes and they will tell you how she feels...sometimes the look of sadness in my boys eyes is punishment enough.
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